Can Haven send messages or approve things without me?

No. Haven checks, drafts and proposes. Anything the other home will see waits until you tap to send or approve.

Is this for building a court case?

CoHaven is built for running the everyday week calmly, not for building a case. Messages can’t be edited or deleted once sent, and you can export your records as a PDF whenever you need them.

How much does it cost, and do both parents pay?

Each parent gets 30 days free, then $15 a month or $144.99 a year. Each parent has their own plan, so nobody pays for the other. After the trial, everything stays readable.

Is there an Android app?

Not yet. CoHaven is on iPhone and iPad today, in English and Spanish.

For parents raising kids across two homes

Co-parenting, without the back-and-forth.

CoHaven is the iPhone app that runs the logistics between two homes. Haven, its assistant, checks swaps against your parenting plan, splits costs by your rules and helps you reply calmly. You approve everything.

Start freeNo card to start30 days free for each parent

Your co-parent never sees your private notes
Nothing is sent without your tap
Logistics help, not legal advice

SSam9:14 PMCan we swap Wednesday for Thursday? Work thing came up.

HavenChecked both calendars and your planFits your plan

Thursday works. You're both free, and nights stay 4–3, like §4.2 of your plan says.

M5T6W7T8F9S10S11

Approve swapSuggest another day

Sent to Sam · Both calendars updated

The problem

Not another log.

This is a normal Tuesday night across two homes. Most apps hand you a place to file it all. Haven reads it, sorts it, and hands you one calm brief.

26 loose ends1 calm brief

KEEP SCROLLING TO CLEAR IT

Can we swap Wed??

SSam (4)did you see my texts

Cleats $64.99who pays this?

Theo’s EpiPen is at Sam’s???

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That’s not what we agreed

When is picture day?

SMissed callSam · 3 times

@Lincoln ElementaryField trip slip due MONDAY

$Payment requestSam requested $112.40

7ConflictSoccer 4:30 · Swim 5:00

Voicemail · 2:14

pack cleats sign slip call Dr. O ???

per our agreement…

I’m driving, can’t talk

!ReminderDentist · Theo 3:30 · which house?

Is it my weekend or yours

Allergy form!!

IMG_2231.HEIC

PSoccer parents (31)Who has snack duty Sat

@Re: Re: Re: ThanksgivingI thought we said even years

5Pickup in 5 minLincoln Elementary

can you just answer

HavenYour week, sorted · Wednesday 7:30 AM

Swap Wed ↔ Thu fitsReady to approve · nights stay 4–3

$Cleats · your half is $32.50Split by §6.1 · waiting on your OK

Field trip slip due MondayOn both calendars · picture day is Fri

Theo's EpiPen and allergy formOn Sunday's packing list

22 other things filed, matched or answered. Nothing sent without you.

What Haven handles

The three things that start most arguments, handled.

Swaps, money and messages. Haven does the checking, the maths and the first draft. You make the call.

Swaps that check themselves

Haven looks at both calendars and your parenting plan before you answer, so “yes” never turns into a fight later.

Costs split by your rules

Snap a receipt. Haven splits it the way your plan says, to the cent, and shows the section it used.

Replies that stay calm

Haven flags phrases that read as blame and offers a version that still gets the soccer bag back.

Handoff packing listsNothing gets left at the other house.

Private alertsLock-screen alerts never show names, amounts or places.

You approve everythingHaven drafts and proposes. Nothing reaches Sam until you tap send.

Getting started

Set up in one evening. Calm from the next morning.

Share your plan

Upload your parenting plan or court order. Haven builds your custody calendar, handoffs and expense rules, and shows the page each one came from. You review it all before anything goes live.

Invite your co-parent, or don’t yet

CoHaven is useful on day one by yourself. When Sam joins, you both see the same calendar and balance, and each of you keeps your own private notes.

Let the week run

Each morning, Haven tells you who has the kids, the next handoff and anything that needs you. Swaps, splits and replies arrive ready to approve.

See it work · nothing is sent

Watch Haven handle a real week.

Three moments that usually take a text thread, running in the actual app. Pick one, or just watch.

Sam asks for a swap.

Practice data · Jordan, Sam, Mila and Theo

JHaven · Friday, October 2 · 2:40 PM

Good afternoon, Jordan

Pickup is in 35 minutes. Sam asked to swap Wednesday, and it fits your week.

YOUR TIME

Mila & Theo are with you

Handoff to Sam · Sun 5:00 PM at Sam's place

M28

T29

W30

With youWith Sam

Needs you1

Swap Wed, Oct 7 for Thu, Oct 8Requested by Sam · 2h ago

You're free Wednesday evening. Nights stay 4–3, like your plan says.

Approve swapNot now

SNew swap requestSam asked to swap Wed, Oct 7 for Thu, Oct 8now

Ask Haven

Pricing

Free for 30 days. Then less than a coffee a week.

Each parent has their own plan, so nobody pays for the other. Your trial starts when you create or join a household. After it ends, everything stays readable.

A coffee a week, for a month~$20.75

A month of CoHaven, yearly plan$12.08

Coffee prices vary by place.

YearlySave $35.01$144.99 billed once a year$12.08 /mo

MonthlyBilled monthly$15 /mo

Start freeNo card to start · Cancel anytime in the App Store

Questions

What parents ask before they start

No. CoHaven is useful on your own from day one: your calendar, your receipts, your drafts. When your co-parent joins, you share one calendar and one balance, and each of you keeps private notes.

Guides for the 10 PM questionsAll guides

How a 2-2-3 custody schedule works Splitting child costs by income Co-parenting communication that works

Give your kids one calm home base.

Set it up once tonight. Tomorrow morning, Haven has your week ready.

Start freeNo card to start · 30 days free

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