One calm place for everything co-parenting.
Schedules, expenses, handoffs and reminders — gathered into one shared home, so the everyday details stop turning into the same old arguments.
June 2026
2-2-3The hard part was never the calendar. It's the back-and-forth around it.
"Wait — whose week is it?"
Schedules live in screenshots, texts and two different calendars that never quite agree.
"You owe me for the shoes."
Receipts get lost, reimbursements get forgotten, and money becomes a recurring argument.
"I didn't know about the dentist."
Appointments and permission slips slip through the cracks between two households.
"Can we not do this over text?"
Every logistics message risks reopening an old conflict in a thread you can't escape.
CoHaven gives the logistics one shared, neutral home — so the details stay details.
Smoother handoffs, every single time.
A live countdown to the next pickup, a one-tap “on my way,” and a shared “don't forget” list — so nothing, and no one's backpack, gets left behind.
- A countdown to the next pickup, with the location
- One-tap “I'm on my way” so the other home knows
- Shared checklist for backpacks, meds and slips
Shared costs that settle themselves.
Snap a receipt, set the split, and CoHaven tracks who owes what. A running balance replaces the awkward "you still owe me" texts.
- Custom split ratios for medical, school & activities
- Photo receipts attached to every expense
- Export a clean record for taxes or mediation
One set of house rules, both homes.
Bedtimes, screen time, sleepovers — agreed in writing and kept in one place, so “but Dad lets me” stops being a negotiation at every handoff.
- Bedtime, screen time and sleepovers, in writing
- Mark each rule “agreed” or flag it for discussion
- Print a one-pager for sitters and grandparents
Set it up once. Let the everyday run itself.
Build your schedule
Pick a rotation or start from one of our free templates. Add the kids, the handoffs, the holidays.
Invite your co-parent
They join their own private account. Everyone sees the same plan — no one sees your personal messages.
Let CoHaven keep the thread
Reminders, balances and changes flow to both homes automatically. You just show up for the kids.
Solve one thing right now. Keep the rest in CoHaven.
Custody Schedule Builder
Visualize 2-2-3, week-on-week-off and custom rotations. Print a clean parenting calendar in minutes.
Open builder Free toolExpense Split Calculator
Work out fair shares for medical, school and activity costs by income or custody percentage.
Open calculator Free quizCo-Parenting Check-In
A short, non-judgmental assessment of where your communication is working — and where it strains.
Take the check-in Free toolHoliday Co-Pilot
Divide the year's holidays fairly and let them auto-alternate every year. Print a clean holiday schedule.
Open planner Free toolShift Parent OS
Map a 4-on-4-off, nights or custom rotation onto the calendar and see where shifts clash with custody.
Open the plannerIt didn't fix our relationship. It made the logistics stop being a fight.
"We went from forty texts a week to almost none. The calendar is just… there, and we both trust it. That alone lowered the temperature in our house."
"The expense log ended the money arguments. I add the receipt, it splits it, and the balance is right there. No more 'I never agreed to that.'"
"As a shift nurse my schedule is chaos. Being able to plan swaps in advance — and have them just appear on his side — has been the thing that finally works."
Your family's details, kept safe and neutral.
CoHaven holds sensitive logistics for two separate households. We treat that responsibility seriously — your data is encrypted, your spaces are separate, and you decide who ever sees what.
Independent security practices, reviewed annually.
Your data rights honored on request.
Try CoHaven free for 30 days.
Full access to schedules, expenses, messages and reminders. No credit card to start — invite your co-parent whenever you're ready.
Then $14.99/month or $149/year after trial · free tools stay free forever